iDate: A Personal Account of My Venture into Online Dating… Part 5 – Playing for the Other Team

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Original cover art by the talented Jenn Guo

This is part 5 of a 6 part series about my personal experience with online dating. Click here to see other parts to this series. Stay tuned for more!

So despairing at my success rate (or rather failure rate) with online dating, I decided to get some help. Now, I didn’t really expect a CD to reveal the “Tao” of online dating to me. I mean, how could it? Would I suddenly transcend the laws of attraction and have girls messaging me lustily, telling me that they want and need me, more than Michael Jackson needs a good nose job… even more than Lindsay Lohan wants crack cocaine? Yeah, I didn’t think so either.

But you know, the claims of these dating guides are always like “Read this guide, and you’ll be able to pick up girls faster than you can find the normalized eigen-vectors of a 2×2 matrix!”… or something to that effect. Anyway, I tried to keep an open mind as I opened up this CD guide to online dating.

Well, I must admit, there’s one aspect of the CD that was very impressive: it was really comprehensive. It covered everything from making an online profile, to how to send messages, to making a phone call, to setting up a date… with not just audio instructions, but videos as well! Wow, with this, I bet even my 5 year old cousin could have tried to pick up girls online. But the thing is, none of the content was really extraordinary. From the sample profile to the sample messages, I didn’t think any of it was that great. If anything, the profile, messages, and advice all came off as a little contrived and uninspired.

There was one suggestion, however, that caught my attention. It suggested I create a fake female profile. This way, I would able to find out exactly what it feels like to be a girl on online dating.

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What’s going on at 395 Huron Street?

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Friendly folks at 395 Huron Street (somewhere within the St. George Campus — Google Maps shows that it’s north of the Sussex Clubs House/UofT Police Station) are hosting the last movie of their summer Sunset Cinema Series.

The 1980 comedy Nine to Five starring Jane Fonda, Lily Tomlin, and Dolly Parton will be shown.  To satisfy your curiousity, here’s the IMDB profile of the movie.

If you happen to check this movie out, look for the “TORONTO DOMINION BANK OF CALIFORNIA.”

When: Wednesday, August 29th, 8:30PM
Where: Front yard of 395 Huron Street
Details: Free!  Bring a picnic! 

Vegetarian Food Fair

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To our vegetable lovers (vegans, vegetarians, and those who enjoy vegetables with foods from other food groups):

Cap off your summer with a visit to the Toronto Vegetarian Association’s 23rd Annual Vegetarian Food Fair. Join us for three colourful days of exciting and educational exhibits and events at Toronto’s Harbourfront Centre. Admission is free.

The event takes place on the 7th, 8th and 9th of September.

The largest event of its kind in North America, the Annual Vegetarian Food Fair gives you an unparalleled opportunity to enjoy a diverse cross-section of vegetarian cuisine. Discover new products and ideas from more than 100 exhibitors and enjoy a wide variety of presentations and cooking demos.

Not a vegetarian? Whether you’re looking for new ideas to add colour and variety to your meals or you’re a “seasoned” vegetarian interested in expanding your knowledge of nutritious and ethical foods, this is the place for you.

For more information go to: http://www.veg.ca/foodfair

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INTERESTED IN VOLUNTEERING AT THE FOOD FAIR?

Volunteering is one of the best ways to experience the Vegetarian Food Fair! We need over 100 volunteers to make this event happen. If you’d like to volunteer, visit http://veg.ca/content/view/428/83/ to see what positions are available. Shift fill up quickly, so apply soon!

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So, in short:
When: Friday, September 7th – Sunday, September 9th
Where: Harbourfront Centre
Details: Free admission! Also, the Toronto Vegetarian Association is looking for event volunteers — sign-up to volunteer!

Gearing up for the new school year…

Summer is winding down and there is less than a week left for incoming frosh to enjoy their summers before heading down to our lovely campus for some good ol’ frosh week fun! 

While they are basking in the last of their teenage summers, we here at blogUT are working hard slowly getting out of vacation mode, getting ready for another year of coverage of campus goings-on. 

For you frosh (and frosh-at-heart) out there, check out our special frosh week/first month of school features starting next week! 

Also, we would like to get to know our incoming frosh audience, so check out our booth during the University Festival the Friday of Frosh Week!

Becoming Jane, Starter for Ten, Date Movie

becoming_jane.jpgBecoming Jane is a historical romantic tragicomedy that manages to be neither historically accurate, nor romantic, nor tragic, nor funny. But it stars the delightfully devious and too-debonair-for-the-script, James McAvoy. I went into the movie expecting that it had no basis on reality and was going to be silly. Yet I had hoped and assumed the film would at least be cute and romantic. I was wrong. Becoming Jane claims to tell the story of Jane Austen’s (Anne Hathaway) love affair with the supposedly debaucherous, wordly Tom Lefroy (the up-and-coming heart-throb that can actually act, James McAvoy) who apparently inspired her writing; in reality, Jane Austen biographies reveal that Tom Lefroy was an acquaintance of hers for no more than one week so this part of the story, presumably, like everything else, is far from the reality of Austen’s life.

Hathaway’s Jane is supposedly a witty writer and a fan of the ironic. Yet she is incapable of intelligent expression and remains essentially naïve, idealistic, and ignorant. There is no cynicism or embitterment – even after she encounters hardships – that would believably lead to this character being able to produce the clever social satires of the real Jane Austen. She falls for Lefroy, but their love comes as a surprise. They flirt in a manner far too open for the time and with no sign of true affection beyond sexual attraction. Even their supposed banter is sparse and lacks wit. Lefroy insists that Jane requires life experience in order that her writing might equal the panache of a man’s. Apparently life experience is a euphemism for ‘orgasm’ and Lefroy seems to hope he may have the opportunity to oblige. At one point in the film, Jane informs Lefroy that society’s rules prevent her from behaving in any way that might violate her perceived chastity. As the experienced, and probably syphilis-ridden suitor, he behaves with the decorum of a 21st century playboy trapped in a 19th century setting. And Jane waltzes around like a magnificent oaf, unable to either understand her situation in life or decide how to spend it. At all the moments I felt I should feel emotion, I was left only mildly caring about the outcome of the story.

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iDate: A Personal Account of My Venture into Online Dating… Part 4 – Stories from Lavalife

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Original cover art by the talented Jenn Guo

This is part 4 of a 6 part series about my personal experience with online dating. Click here to see other parts to this series. Stay tuned for more!

H&M are the model couple. They’re a ridiculously cute and yes, almost envy-inducing, because that’s just how great they are together. H has infinite indie rock boy charm and though I’ve only met M a few times, she’s super nice and bakes tasty things. They met on Lavalife, chatted online, went on a first date together and have been dating ever since.

But you’re probably pondering… “if they’re so great, did they really need to go online to look for a date?” Good question.

Paraphrasing my friend H: “It makes sense if you think about it. People spend $30 and a night at a bar in hopes of meeting someone. Compared to that, online dating is a pretty good alternative, especially for those who are a little shy.”

I talked to H about his online dating experience, and he said it was much the same as mine: lots of messages sent, not so many replies. “Just keep at it and give it a chance,” encouraged H. Mind you, H is much better looking than I am. He’s got way cool hair plus well, you just can’t compete with indie rock boy charms. (M if you’re reading this, don’t worry, I’m not trying to steal him.)

I was also curious about M’s online dating experience. What’s online dating like from the female perspective? Turns out it’s quite a different story! The following is an excerpt from our MSN conversation.

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The Simpsons Movie: it really is just like television

simpsons_final_poster.jpg The Simpsons Movie would not be the first example of a well-liked television show that was turned into a movie, capitalizing on a huge fan base that would see the movie regardless of whether or not it was any good. But most of the time these movies just do not manage to live up to the series; Joss Whedon’s Firefly attempted a move to the big screen, and while Serenity was not a bad movie, it paled by comparison to the original series. The Simpson Movie, however, manages to be just as good as the series. If you are a Simpsons fan, you’ll probably really enjoy the movie. But if you watched the series casually, as I did, when there was nothing else on, the movie will not convert you into a hard-core fan, intent upon catching up on some eighteen years worth of episodes. In fact, it will probably just leave you reasonably underwhelmed and confused about all the hype for the movie.

Perhaps it’s a credit to the simplicity of the Simpsons characters, but I found the characters just as well introduced, interesting, and easy to understand as I did when I saw various episodes in the series. You certainly do not need to be an avid fan of the show to understand the movie. Movies like Serenity were too plot-driven, not giving you enough of an opportunity to understand the potentially interesting and complex characters that we saw on the series. The Simpsons Movie does not encounter this problem, but the characters are mere caricatures; we are not supposed to think much about them.

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